{"id":101,"date":"2021-08-17T12:25:20","date_gmt":"2021-08-17T12:25:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.matchmeglobal.com\/blog\/?p=101"},"modified":"2024-02-22T10:17:53","modified_gmt":"2024-02-22T10:17:53","slug":"marrying-late-isnt-a-crime-anymore-you-do-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.matchmeglobal.com\/blog\/marrying-late-isnt-a-crime-anymore-you-do-you\/","title":{"rendered":"Marrying &#8216;Late&#8217; Isn\u2019t a Crime Anymore &#8211; You Do You"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>We live in strange times &#8211; an ocean was on fire, billionaires are shooting themselves into space &amp;amp; there<br \/>\nis a virus that mutates itself biannually and forces the world to shut down again and again. As earthlings,<br \/>\nour actions from the past and present have put us in a bit of a stupor. However, the progress of the<br \/>\nhuman race is measured not just by our understanding of the limits of science, technology and human<br \/>\nbodies. Throughout the pandemic, we have heard stories from around the world of people coming<br \/>\ntogether to help their communities, taking extraordinary measures to go beyond the call of duty, even<br \/>\nfalling in love without a single physical interaction or at best at a distance of 6 feet, behind morbid<br \/>\nmasks. These are prime examples of intellectual progress &#8211; of adaptation, empathy, kindness and the<br \/>\nrecognition to go beyond our pre-conditioned prejudices to make life better for others and ourselves in<br \/>\nwhatever way we can.<\/p>\n<p>To cut a long story short &#8211; we are capable of change. We evolve. The evolution in our society, too, has<br \/>\nbeen gradual but noteworthy. There is a definite shift in mindset about education, financial<br \/>\nindependence, working in off-beat fields and even love and relationships. We see more and more<br \/>\nparents encouraging their <i>children, <\/i>not just sons<i>, <\/i>to pursue their dreams, study whatever they wish and<br \/>\nexplore the world around them. The earlier framework of studying such and such subjects, marrying at a<br \/>\ncertain age, having x no. of children etc., is slowly becoming redundant.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h5 style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>The entire concept of taking charge of one&#8217;s life and keeping one&#8217;s interests<\/strong><\/h5>\n<h5 style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>first and foremost is no longer considered selfish.<\/strong><\/h5>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>An interesting off-shoot of this line of thought is that more and more people are placing marriage and<br \/>\ngetting into serious long term relationships further on the number line of their lives. What is heartening<br \/>\nto see, though, is that there are enough and more parents who aren&#8217;t pushing their children to &#8216;settle<br \/>\ndown&#8217;. They understand the need to find the right partner and get into a marriage that will last a lifetime<br \/>\nrather than settle for people who aren&#8217;t right because the proverbial clock is ticking by.<\/p>\n<p>Life throws various curveballs at you. One could be &#8216;late&#8217; in the game for several reasons<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>If they were in a relationship that lasted years and didn&#8217;t work out.<\/li>\n<li>If their careers were their primary focus<\/li>\n<li>If they were not ready to commit to a relationship<\/li>\n<li>If they just haven&#8217;t found the one.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>These are perfectly normal, human reasons. Sadly, the flip side exists too. The truth is that we live in a patriarchal society where the general <i>junta <\/i>assumes that a woman in her 30&#8217;s who has completed her PHD, has a successful career, runs marathons and visits senior citizen homes every other Sunday is still unfulfilled. This mindset puts pressure on men too, where if not married by a certain time; they are\u00a0questioned even on their virility! It is a common sight in social gatherings for people to sit around and discuss other people&#8217;s lives, especially about one&#8217;s partner or rather the lack of them. However, they are best left to their own devices<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h5 style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>As long as one has the support of their immediate loved ones, they should<\/strong><\/h5>\n<h5 style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>consider this mindless chatter as background noise and ignore it.<\/strong><\/h5>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Always be hopeful and open to love and companionship. Just because something didn&#8217;t work out or hasn&#8217;t till now doesn&#8217;t mean it never will. Love comes into people&#8217;s lives in mysterious ways, and if it hasn&#8217;t yet, we are always there to help!<\/p>\n<p><em><i><a href=\"https:\/\/www.matchmeglobal.com\/\"><strong>MatchMe<\/strong><\/a> is an <a href=\"https:\/\/www.matchmeglobal.com\/contact\"><strong>elite matchmaking service based in New Delhi, India<\/strong><\/a>. The personalized matchmaking firm provides curated matches from around the world and is considered one of the best amongst <a href=\"https:\/\/www.matchmeglobal.com\/services\"><strong>high-end matrimonial services<\/strong><\/a> found in the country. What sets it apart is the organic and progressive approach of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.matchmeglobal.com\/team\"><strong>Mishi and Tania<\/strong><\/a>, who helm this enterprise.<\/i><\/em><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-61 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.matchmeglobal.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/Accents-For-Blog.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"46\" height=\"41\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We live in strange times &#8211; an ocean was on fire, billionaires are shooting themselves into space &amp;amp; there is<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":367,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-101","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-matrimonial-services"],"acf":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.matchmeglobal.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/101","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.matchmeglobal.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.matchmeglobal.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.matchmeglobal.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.matchmeglobal.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=101"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.matchmeglobal.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/101\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":380,"href":"https:\/\/www.matchmeglobal.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/101\/revisions\/380"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.matchmeglobal.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/367"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.matchmeglobal.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=101"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.matchmeglobal.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=101"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.matchmeglobal.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=101"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}