{"id":188,"date":"2023-01-24T13:52:35","date_gmt":"2023-01-24T13:52:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.matchmeglobal.com\/blog\/?p=188"},"modified":"2024-03-13T12:11:24","modified_gmt":"2024-03-13T12:11:24","slug":"should-you-drink-on-your-first-date","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.matchmeglobal.com\/blog\/should-you-drink-on-your-first-date\/","title":{"rendered":"Should you drink on your first date?"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"188\" class=\"elementor elementor-188\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4b11c4bd e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"4b11c4bd\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;content_width&quot;:&quot;boxed&quot;}\" data-core-v316-plus=\"true\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2623d26d elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"2623d26d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.19.0 - 28-02-2024 *\/\n.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-stacked .elementor-drop-cap{background-color:#69727d;color:#fff}.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-framed .elementor-drop-cap{color:#69727d;border:3px solid;background-color:transparent}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap{margin-top:8px}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap-letter{width:1em;height:1em}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap{float:left;text-align:center;line-height:1;font-size:50px}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap-letter{display:inline-block}<\/style>\t\t\t\t<p>You tell us what you want to do! Do you feel like drinking on your first date to loosen up and keep it real? If you really feel like drinking is right at the moment where maybe you are ordering a nice meal and want a wine to go with it? You should definitely do that. <b>One drink is good, two drinks are okay and three drinks might just pass the wrong message<\/b>. Do everything with your heart in it however don\u2019t overdo it since it\u2019s just your first date.<\/p><p>If someone judges you for drinking, well you have your answer! <b>If you\u2019re a man and you\u2019re drinking<\/b>, one advice is you should certainly offer the woman you\u2019re with a drink too. It\u2019s totally okay for you to order the first drink if you\u2019re a woman &#8211; by the way. <b>No one should judge or be judged for drinking on the first date<\/b>.<\/p><p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-401 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.matchmeglobal.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/caucasian-romantic-young-couple-celebrating-their-marriage-city_155003-28679.jpg\" alt=\"Modern Matchmaking in India\" width=\"1060\" height=\"706\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.matchmeglobal.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/caucasian-romantic-young-couple-celebrating-their-marriage-city_155003-28679.jpg 1060w, https:\/\/www.matchmeglobal.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/caucasian-romantic-young-couple-celebrating-their-marriage-city_155003-28679-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.matchmeglobal.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/caucasian-romantic-young-couple-celebrating-their-marriage-city_155003-28679-1024x682.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.matchmeglobal.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/caucasian-romantic-young-couple-celebrating-their-marriage-city_155003-28679-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1060px) 100vw, 1060px\" \/><\/p><p>Moreover, it\u2019s also crucial to remember that you want to ensure the other person is comfortable with you drinking. <b>It\u2019s a good idea to ask &#8211; \u201cIs it okay if I order a drink?<\/b>\u201d before you go on and order one. Giving the person you\u2019re with a heads up helps to boost their comfort level with you.<\/p><p>If your <b>first date is a sip-and-paint date<\/b> where you are sipping some wine while enjoying a painting session, it\u2019s a given that you will be drinking a little bit. However, if you don\u2019t want to drink in such a situation too, please let the person you\u2019re with know that you don\u2019t enjoy drinking and prefer something nonalcoholic. It\u2019s totally okay to get something without alcohol too.<\/p><p>There\u2019s no definite answer for <b>what one should and shouldn\u2019t do on a first date<\/b>. It very much depends on what you feel like doing and what feels right to you. You might just go with your gut feeling and instinct without worrying about it too much. If the date goes well and if it\u2019s meant to work out, it will. There\u2019s no point in stressing over the minute details. The beauty of a first date lies in what you observe about the other person rather than what you plan to show about yourself. The best advice is to simply be yourself. The right match will come by.<\/p><p>Whether you want to drink on your first date or not &#8211; don\u2019t stress it, just do what you feel like doing. However, don\u2019t drink too much either. A drink or two is okay. Do <b>keep in mind your capacity and drink accordingly. You don\u2019t want to put the other person off<\/b>.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You tell us what you want to do! 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